WHO ARE YOU CHOOSING TONIGHT?
Who are you choosing night?
Crowds of ppl. Crowds of ppl. A lot of individuality, a lot of false individuality. But who are you choosing tonight. Fine and beautiful ppl. But who are choosing tonight. Long hair, short hair, no hair but who you choosing tonight. Browsing and searching for an eye candy but who you are choosing tonight.
My thought was wandering as I wondered who I was gonna choose tonight. Oh He seems cute. Or maybe the tall slim dude with the ripped jeans seem like an eye candy. But who am I choosing tonight.
My outfit well put together, eye liner, hair did, my tight favorite jeans but who am I choosing tonight.
For once in my life I’m choosing myself. It was ok to stand in a crowd by myself. I didn’t need an eye candy to choose from. I just need to choose myself. I needed and wanted to keep choosing myself over and over. If I don’t choose myself than who will?!
Crowds of ppl. Crowds of ppl. A lot of individuality, a lot of false individuality. But who are you choosing tonight. Fine and beautiful ppl. But who are choosing tonight. Long hair, short hair, no hair but who you choosing tonight. Browsing and searching for an eye candy but who you are choosing tonight.
My thought was wandering as I wondered who I was gonna choose tonight. Oh He seems cute. Or maybe the tall slim dude with the ripped jeans seem like an eye candy. But who am I choosing tonight.
My outfit well put together, eye liner, hair did, my tight favorite jeans but who am I choosing tonight.
For once in my life I’m choosing myself. It was ok to stand in a crowd by myself. I didn’t need an eye candy to choose from. I just need to choose myself. I needed and wanted to keep choosing myself over and over. If I don’t choose myself than who will?!
HAVE YOU LOVED ON YOURSELF LATELY?
+ Who doesn’t want a fineeee bae?? Chileee I know I do. Lmaoo but at the same time I’m constantly asking myself am I ready for the next level of love?⠀
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Have I loved on myself enough to know what the heck real love looks like?! Have I emptied out all the old baggage and trash?! Lmaoo 🤔🤔🤔 Have I healed all the deep rooted wounds? Do I feel complete within?⠀
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On a regular I ask myself these questions because I want to be able to love myself so much that I can share that same love with the next person. Better yet I want to be able to share that with my future kid(s) so that they can share it with their future kids. I want that deep love flow ever lasting through generations to come. ⠀
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Everyday I do a self love check. It’s not this extravagant event but I always wanna make sure my self love is on fleek. Rather that’s emotionally, spiritually and physically. ⠀
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So the question is have you loved on yourself lately? If you haven’t take a moment for your self love. Even if it 15 mins. But always do a self love check in. If your self love ain’t on point how can you truly love anyone including your child the best way possible. SELF LOVE is sooo important! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾⠀
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Have I loved on myself enough to know what the heck real love looks like?! Have I emptied out all the old baggage and trash?! Lmaoo 🤔🤔🤔 Have I healed all the deep rooted wounds? Do I feel complete within?⠀
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On a regular I ask myself these questions because I want to be able to love myself so much that I can share that same love with the next person. Better yet I want to be able to share that with my future kid(s) so that they can share it with their future kids. I want that deep love flow ever lasting through generations to come. ⠀
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Everyday I do a self love check. It’s not this extravagant event but I always wanna make sure my self love is on fleek. Rather that’s emotionally, spiritually and physically. ⠀
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So the question is have you loved on yourself lately? If you haven’t take a moment for your self love. Even if it 15 mins. But always do a self love check in. If your self love ain’t on point how can you truly love anyone including your child the best way possible. SELF LOVE is sooo important! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾⠀
HEALED WOUNDS
+ Self love requires a lot Healing!! Letting go some things. Forgiving some things. Cry out some things.
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There is something called pathology. Where your damaged wounds will travel your from kids and your kids kids.
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My depression was passed down from my mom. And my depression was triggered from abandonment issues. My abandonment issues stopped me from having healthy relationships.
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The last 4 years or so I’ve been healing that wounded. So that my kids won’t have to experience that. And if they do I have the proper tools to get them through it.
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So take a moment and think about the things you may have picked up from your parent or guardian that needs to heal. So that next generation can have a clearer path!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
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There is something called pathology. Where your damaged wounds will travel your from kids and your kids kids.
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My depression was passed down from my mom. And my depression was triggered from abandonment issues. My abandonment issues stopped me from having healthy relationships.
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The last 4 years or so I’ve been healing that wounded. So that my kids won’t have to experience that. And if they do I have the proper tools to get them through it.
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So take a moment and think about the things you may have picked up from your parent or guardian that needs to heal. So that next generation can have a clearer path!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾